Today is my birthday, and I want to talk about growth. For many years, I was confused about who I was. I was lost and just existing. I wasn’t asking questions, I wasn’t choosing intentionally, I was simply there. And while I wasn’t a follower in the obvious ways, ( like drinking, or smoking) IContinueContinue reading “My birthday, my testimony. Becoming Proverbs 31 woman 🙏🏾”
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What’s your favorite thing to cook?l I love cooking African food because I don’t have to use measurements. When it comes to American food, I get a little frustrated not overwhelmed, just annoyed by all the measuring and multitasking.
Be the thankful for what you have.
I’ve realized that when you truly love yourself and begin to see yourself the way God sees you, you start to enjoy life for what it is. I was never someone who enjoyed or celebrated my birthday. I hated getting older each year, and often, if I didn’t receive the things I wanted, I allowedContinueContinue reading “Be the thankful for what you have.”
Understanding comes after healing.
A few years ago, I used to hear the saying “you attract who you are,” and I didn’t believe it. Honestly, none of the men I dated reflected who I truly was. We had nothing in common, and I thought, there’s no way I could be attracting who I am, because I didn’t see myselfContinueContinue reading “Understanding comes after healing.”
Forgiveness and Letting go
When people hear the word forgiveness, they often assume it means allowing someone back into your life. But forgiveness does not require reconciliation. Forgiveness is for your peace, so you can let go and move forward. There’s a saying: Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Holding onto hurt onlyContinueContinue reading “Forgiveness and Letting go”
God hears the prayers we can’t put into words. Give yourself grace.
Are you an overthinking follower of Christ ? Because let me be honest I am. I overthink everything, even my prayers. There are times when I pray and start questioning myself: Did I pray hard enough? Did I say the right words? Did I say enough? Recently, I’ve been sick with a cold and flu,ContinueContinue reading “God hears the prayers we can’t put into words. Give yourself grace.”
Who Can Give Advice?
Let’s talk about giving advice. I’ve heard many times that as a single woman, you should never give advice to a married woman. I’ve also heard that a woman without children shouldn’t speak into the life of a woman who has kids. But wisdom isn’t limited to titles, seasons, or life status. Wisdom is aboutContinueContinue reading “Who Can Give Advice?”
True Leader
What makes a good leader? A good leader is defined by character, consistency, and care for people. A good leader walks in integrity, has clear vision, sets healthy boundaries, and leads with wisdom. A good leader shows humility, takes accountability, and leads with empathy and compassion. They have courage, remain consistent, are self-aware and open-minded,ContinueContinue reading “True Leader”
Understanding seasons, mine and theirs
The world does not revolve around you, and the sooner you truly understand that, the happier you will be. We are all living our own lives, and we are all dealing with our own struggles. That’s why it’s important to focus on yourself. When something good happens to you when you succeed, get a newContinueContinue reading “Understanding seasons, mine and theirs”
A road trip that changed my life.
Think back on your most memorable road trip. A couple of years ago, I went on a road trip with my sister and three other people. We drove all the way to Ohio. Before I get into the story, let me give you a little background about my life. I grew up in a veryContinueContinue reading “A road trip that changed my life.”